I have been "married" to my hubby for 11 years and we have four kids. I sell designer clothes so i am very well dressed and he is also rich because his businesses here and Africa are very profitable making him travel back home regularly. I do not ask questions as i trusted him. Only to find that he has gotten married and the new wife has posted their wedding photos all over facebook. My friends saw them first, they called me concerned that i did not tell them about the divorce. We were only come you stay but we still planned our future together. Now he supports our kids as required but as for me, just depression all the way. I do not know how ever anyone can be so cruel.
Joyce - Stratford.
I was always very huge when I had my children and it got worse because I did not work. I have 5 children and the first two are girls. When they boys came a was almost bu myself as my husband was always working and the boys were tough to bring up. I found myself binge eating and drinking indoors. By the time my last born was 3, the doctors were so worried that i will not make it. They suggested a gastric band. It was extremely painful operation but now i am a pretty size 12 and even husband cannot get enough of me. The problem is that my 18 year old daughter in University is now very much obese and any time i ask that she does excercise or diet, she cannot manage. I have just decided to pay for her operation too. If she has the gastric band, she might even has a chance of getting a boyfriend. I am just scared she will not make it because i know i was lucky! should i let her have it?
Sometimes i feel like life is so unfair. My friends wife keep calling me and reporting her husband to me or just calling to talk of general things. I am not interested in her sexually but each day she call me more than three times asking for advice or just to chat. Now her husband has started to make trouble that we are having an affair but its not the case. I am not married, and I am in a relationship and i would hate if my girlfriend was to do that. How do i tell her to stop calling me without hurting her feelings. To be honest she is a laugh and a joy to talk to but still i do not want her to btreak her marriage. Its now killing me that i encouraged our platonic friendship. How can i handle this without hurting anyone?
I have to share this because I am very concerned. My friend has been in so many relationship over the last 8 years i am worried she is not getting it. She was married, but she divorced after petty disagreement. After that she has introduced me to 5 boyfriend, all that she has been quite intimate with with the hope that they will be the one but they never are. She has been in a relationship with a cute guy for two years and we though that was it. Now i have met her today and hoping to find out how the boyfriend is, only to be shocked by images of new one, who she has even moved in with. How can love and lust for so long? How can i tell her without hurting her feelings? Advice please. Josephine from SILVERTOWN.
What is your take on spousal Rape. Cases of such has become very rampart in te western world and much unheard of in Africa. Sex should be enjoyable for both parties and agreeable at all times but is this ever the case? Have you been raped by your partner or felt like so? are you treated like an asset? Do you deny your husband conjugal rights just to punish? This is a very sensitive case on spousal Rape. Read on!
A 35-year-old Novato man was arrested Wednesday on suspicion of spousal rape, making criminal threats and brandishing a deadly weapon, police said. Benjamin Kiruri faces a bail of $150,000 following his arrest at 1:55 p.m. at the Novato police station, according to the Marin County Jail booking log.
A 30-year-old woman told investigators that she was raped by her husband and suffered minor injuries on April 14 at their Novato home, Novato police Lt. Keith Heiden said. She also said her husband brandished a knife and threatened to kill her on May 3.
Heiden said the woman, a native of Kenya, was unfamiliar with crime-reporting procedures in the United States and made the report after meeting with a domestic violence victim advocate from the Marin County Center for Domestic Peace.
The suspect went to the Novato police station at the request of the investigating officer and was arrested, Heiden said.Kiruri faces felony counts of rape and making threats and a misdemeanor charge of brandishing a weapon.Source:http://novato.patch.com/articles/husband-suspected-in-spousal-rape-case
After Reading that, what is your thoughts? Is it a world gone bad? or is intorelant partners?
I bought two completed properties and 3 plots for the 10 years that I could not travel home. My brother and my mum were the signatories when purchasing. All my properties are worth more is 15 million kshs. I went home for christmas and we had a good reunion. They saw my kid for the first time and for two weeks it was all jolly. Until early January when i decided to sort out my financial deals. I wanted the documents to my rpoperties so as we can transfer them to my name. My brother said they are with the lawyers and he is out of town. We did a cat and mouse until 3 days before my return, he owned up that mum has now taken them. Mum was so furious with me that i am calling her a thief and that i have really changed and she threw a huge tantrum and left home. I returned to UK without knowing where she had gone. When i came back, she has refused to talk to me when i call or talk anything regarding my property. This is daylight robbery and i do not know what to do!
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I am a Virgin but i am just very worried. I started itching down there though i have never had sex. My boyfriend and I have kissed and cuddled but because i am just 16 i have not agreed to his wanting. I am very worried because it is the second time it has happenned. How can i have an std even though i am a virgin. What could cause it. Can i get infected by kissing or even infect my boyfriend. I cannot even tell my mum as she will not believe i am a virgin in the first place. I am so worried and embarassed to tell anyone. Please help.
I had my first born with my high school boyfriend when i was 17 years and because he was going to university we did not get married and we lost contact. When I was 22, I came to the UK and had a relationship with my on and off boyfriend at work. I had pregnancy which i knew 4 months after so i gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, then i was 27. It did not go well and because he is british, he takes care of our kid well without no problem. When we moved on, I was happy to be alone, i brought my son to UK and things were OK. Then, out of the blue, i got a Kenyan guy who never have been married before. He accepted my kids and the relationship was great. He wanted a child and i thought we had a future, i gave birth to his son but an year after, he has moved on. Now I am left with 3 kids, different fathers and its embarassing, i hate when i have to explain to each kid that their father is not their sisters father etc. Has anyone been in that a situation - its not my fault because you tend to think the new relationship will work. Now i have totally given up on Love.
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