In invited My girlfrind who i was dating for 6 months to join me here. i knew i wanted to marry her and i though she wanted it too. I was here 2 years before her and when she came i was shocked! she was expecting and never when i was planning her coming did i know she was cheating on me. I could not send her away, so chose to swallow the bitter pill as she sounded sorry. She had the baby and we juggled  our schedule with baby care, my work and her work. Now the baby is two years. She has refused any commitments, she has refused to have my child and she is now cheating on me! i have wasted about 5 years of my life for a Love i was never going to have. i see her now with her new boyfriend and i feel like the most stupid person alive. There is no shame and she says outright that i was only her ticket. I am so depressed.

James from London
 


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04/07/2012 12:53pm

There is a Universal law that says...whatever measure you use for one is the same measure that will be used on you. I pray that God will restore you to wholeness, He is the best vindicator. One, two or many mistakes do not make you a failure...living as a failure is what can make you a failure. I was cheated on and He got HIV but God preserved me so dust yourself and live life because you are a strong, man. There is a great woman who has values like you out there and living a depressed life will only lead you to finding depressed women; LIving a full life of hope is what will lead you to finding a woman who has values like you do. I wish you God's best. He says that before you were formed in your momma's womb, he knew you and predestined you for greatness! Find God and you will find greatness. the best of your life is one step away. find it, live it.

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