I have always dated guys with great looks and i have been dissapointed by them. Either they cheat on me or treat me like rubbish. I am at a place where i want to get serious and settle down with my guy. The problem is that I have too very much interest. One was my former boyfriend who has come back to the scene. Extremely good looking and has a good job, He is a party animal but i like a little life too. The other one is not a looker at all. I mean you would not notice him in a crowd. He is so Loving and wants to settle down. I enjoy spending time with him as he has a great sense of humour. He makes me relax and laugh but all my friends just wonder what i see in him. I am torn of who to choose. I let the ugly one go, i might never get a good partner to settle down with or i settle with him but hates his looks all the time. The other one might just dump me again. I am seriously confused here. HELP.

Mercy Allan

The economy has really gone down on us. Bills bills and  more bills. I am a social work and I have a permanent job at a mental institution which when end month comes i pay rent, water electricity and all the other househols bills and shopping that I am left with almost nothing. I cannot remember the last time i bought my wife a new thing as we are always on the negative. She has been off work because we have a one year old baby but she is actively looking for a job now she cannot get. She has her family in Kenya and I have mine who are expecting too much but its hard for us to have a rememinder to send home. We have reached a breaking point financially but we are in it together. Does anyone knows how we can move out of this financial tie down.
Kamau wa Dukaini
Bristol

I was the envy of all ladies when I married my husband of 4 years . He is well known in London and he is seen as a casanova as he can be such a flirt. So when we started dating, I had to fight such competition from other experienced girls. We had sex a couple of times before our wedding and because it was all planned, He was great.  After we got married, he was a failure in bed. He could not go more than 2 minutes and most times he was not in the mood. I was shocked by this by he told me that he always had the problem and that he used to take Viagra if he was going to have a sexual encounter. Now that he is married, he did not see the use of taking them. This has left me sexually frustrated. We are fighting over other things but it is sex we do not fight about yet that is what i want. He refuses to go to hopsital as he says its embarassing. I am going to start an extra marital affair soon as i am just not satisfied. He thinks its not a woman place to ask for sex but i need it. Its bad, does anyone knows anything that can work with him or me to stop the need i have. T

I started a security company that employed so many people. I was able to  earn so much money and I was known to be a giver in the community. I cheated on my wife with almost every girl that came to work for us and many more that i met on the clubs i went. My went had enough, relocated back and has managed our properties there so much she has multiplied them. As for me the business now has gone down, the woman i had has moved  on and i am left with nothing, I am even struggling to pay mortgage. How can i go back to my wife after all this.         Mzee

Kenyas' Emergency Services......a police woman reluctantly scrolls through her ...phone as a man sits helpless after his feet were crashed by a pickup loaded with people attending a funeral . What can be done to improve the emergency services in Kenya?.
  Many of the deaths that occur after an accident or disaster could easily be avoided if measure are put into place to deal with the situation,but the gorverment and Municiple Councils are too reluctunt to prioritise these issues.










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             It's not just the emergency services, it's the whole of Kenya. There is a dog eat dog attitude. Kenya(ns) need a complete overhaul. Customer services and basic manners need to be taught as mandatory in school!!
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We need good leaders who care human rights.She is supposed to be punished.
  By the look of it the police in question was on scene. her uniform suggests she is a traffic police officer not a Doc or a nurse. With phone handy suggests she could be asking for assistance with relevance to the young man.Again other road ...users had to use the road and its her job to make sure that happens smoothly. To me she is at the right place.on the road sio kwa hotel. the guy is safe with other pple around him who could be 1st aiders than the cop wearing uniform.
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    I thought traffic police are always equipped to offer first aid rather than members of the public .....I should event think the guy holding the phone had just grabbed it from this guy...I don't understand how you offer First Aid by just standing and looking.Could be the officer was running away from the situation by keeping herself busy. Retraining officers should be the first thing that needs done.
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.....invite outside tendering of these services,jus to catch up
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    Can't say it better..Ken.Police officers need Capacity building training to handle such incidents...na wananchi wafunzwe FirstAid...at primary level in all schools/actually part of the curriculum
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i miss the point. Red cross have the best emergency services that i know.our greatest undoing is public ignorance - few of us have ever bothered to know their contacts

I am a husband, I am a dad, an uncle, nephew and soon to be a grand dad. I am a very well trained professional pharmacist that helps you at your local pharmacy to get your medication. I enjoy spending time with my family and  in church leading the worship songs and have all the congragation dance with joy. I am crazy about cleaning up and tidying up the garden and just making a house beautiful. I make great barbeque parties for our friends who have allowed themselves to be in our life. Not many now than before, because I told them.  I am  HIV+. I have a lot in my life apart from my HIV status and I have a long life ahead of me. so please address me with all my other titles disregarding the title that gives grief to you, because for me the condition is under control. Get yourself checked